Who said you should always be
systematic? Random numbers sometimes do wonders! So, I picked some random
numbers from here and there and I am putting it here, just for me. Those who
read this, please be informed that these lines impressed me so much that I became
so tempted to steal and thus I stole!
Someone who told her problems are solved because she does not fight!
She smiled and said to me “I started
succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters. I stopped
fighting with those who gossiped about me, I stopped fighting with my in-laws,
I stopped fighting for attention, I stopped fighting to meet public
expectations of me, I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people and I
left such fights to those who had nothing to fight for. I started fighting for
my vision, my dreams, my ideas and my destiny. The day I gave up on small
fights is the day I started becoming successful. Some fights are not your worth
your time. My humble request to you is please stop fighting, be it with your
husband, with your children, with your in laws, or with your servants at your
home. Please never fight. No matter, how big your house is, no matter how huge your bank
balance is, no matter how recent your car is, no matter how powerful your
position in life is, at the end, the size of our grave will all be the same.
So, please remember that the most important lesson for all of us to learn if you
want to become successful be it in your family, be it in your career, be it in
any walks of life; shed your egos, ego is killing mankind. If all of us can shed
our egos, I’m sure there will be peace on earth and there will be progress and
prosperity.
That
girl you call fat, she is starving herself. That guy you made fun of crying;
his mother is dying. That boy you pushed the other day, he could be abused at
home. And that old man that you made fun of being deformed, he fought for our
country. We think we know what everyone is going through, but the truth is we have
no idea.
Don't blow out other's candle!
Blowing
out someone’s candle does not make yours shine any brighter. And if you are
trying to pull people down, you are already below them. And for those of you
being put down, bullied or pushed back, recognize that if someone is making you
feel you are not good enough, you are allowing them to do that. See, when
someone says we are beautiful, we believe them for like a moment. But when
someone says you are ugly; we believe them for a life time. Our mind constantly
tricks us into amplifying the negatives and minimizing the positivity. But it
is our choice not to let that in.
India's greatest man
It was Gandhi who said that “I will not let
anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.” See, we all have a choice
to let things in; whether it is energy, words, feelings or emotions. It is our
responsibility to keep our space the way we want it to be. And we will have to
recognize that our words and actions have impact on others. There are so many
people today dealing with so much that even the smallest action can become a
huge trigger in their personal life. And remember those who judge will never
understand, and those who understand will never judge.
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